Self-exploration, education, and sexual normalization: 

Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski

Becoming Cliterate by Dr. Mintz

Urban Tantra by Barbara Carrellas

Navigating non-monogamous relationships and casual dating: 

The Ethical Slut by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton

State of Affairs by Esther Perel

Navigating trauma responses in the body:

The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van der kolk


Sustaining desire and eroticism in monogamy 

Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel 

Book on Foreplay Tips by Lisa Sussman

Navigating BDSM relationships: 

The Ultimate Guide to Kink by Tristan Taormino and Barbara Carrellas

Navigating submissive roles: 

The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy

Navigating dominant roles:

New Topping by Dossie Easton

Navigating your body:

OMG Yes

Sensate Focus Guide

Tantric Sex Guide

Feminist Erotica Authors:

Alisha Rai - https://www.amazon.com/Alisha-Rai/e/B0059W5FCC

Alyssa Cole - https://www.amazon.com/Alyssa-Cole/e/B00I0EK99U

Helen Hoang - https://www.amazon.com/Helen-Hoang/e/B0763CNJ2J%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share

Emily Foster - https://www.amazon.com/Emily-Foster/e/B00LVQD6CQ/ref=dp_byline_cont_ebooks_1

The Ripped Bodice: https://www.therippedbodicela.com/

Interest / Yes/No/Maybe Checklists

https://www.askingforwhatyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/Sexual-Interests-Checklist.pdf

https://www.scarleteen.com/sites/files/scarleteen/yesnomaybe.pdf

Sexual wellness brands that are ethical and inclusive: 

Maude

Foria

Dame : 20% when you use our embodiedsex promo code

Sustain Products

Lord Jones

Mystery Vibe

One Condoms

Fat and the Moon

Uber Lube

Sex-Positive Social Media Accounts: 

@karleyslutever

@sexpositive_families

@thesextalks

@pain.free.and.intimate

@vagmiration

@regards_coupables

@erikalust

@thevaginablog

Ethical Pornography

Bellesa

XConfessions by Erika Lust

Allie Oops

Four Chambers